Urdu Musings-Bharat-Pak Cricket match ya teesri Aalmi Jung

Bharat-Pak ke cricket khel ko na jaane kyun humlog apni an’a ka masla banaye hue hain.Khel ko khel kyun nai samjhte. yeh kyun nai samjhte ke khel toh jeetne ya haarne ka naam hai. Is ko bahaduri se kyun nahi tasleem karte ke aage wali team humse behter hai. Koi baat nahi agar Bharat Bangladesh se har jaaye par Pakistan se haar humein kisi qeemat par qubool nai. Aur kuch aisa hi haal Pakistaniou ka hai. Khel na hua teesri Aalami Jung hogayi.

Iska qusurwar kisko theraya jaaye? Bharat-Pak k hukoomatou ko ya wahan ke logoun ko? Hukoomat ka toh kaam hi yehi hai, logoun ko ek dusre ke khilaaf bhadkana. Ek dusre ke khilaaf bhadka kar hi toh “divide and rule” ki bin’a par Bharat ke do tukde hue the. Ek bangaya Bharat toh ek Pakistan. Aisa taqseem kia ke aaj tak uski kadwi yaadein tazaa hain. Kuch logoun ka manna hai ke Partition mein siasatdanou ka mufaad tha toh kuch kehte hain k siasatdaan sirf apne qaum ki bhalai chahte the. Allah ho Alam. Allah jaanta hai ke sach kya hai.
Lekin kya logoun ko zabardasti apne pyaarou se juda karna theek tha? Jab wo alaidghi ki liye razamand nahi the,unhein khaandan samait khatam kardiya gaya. Aur unki maut ko riots ka nateeja bayan kiya. Logoun ko apne munh bole rishtedaar, wo rishte jo bhed aur rang se kai ounche stah par the, se juda kardiya gaya. Mazhab ke naam par logoun ko juda karte gaye aur nafrat ke beenjh dil mein botey rahe, jiski jaddein aaj bhi tar-o-tazaa hai, bilkul awal din jaisi. Bus bhool gaye the ke koi mazhab nai sikhata ke ladein aur marein. Mazhab toh aman ka paigham deta hai.
Shayad wo sab humari bhalai k liye hi tha. Main nai kehti ke aisa nai hona chahiye tha. Kyun ki jo hota hai usmein beshak humari bhalai chupi hoti hai. Main Khuda ke faisloun mein mudakhalat nahi karna chahti. Bus itna chahti hoon ke kaash yeh sab itna wahshiyana taur pe, behisi se na hota. Kya yeh mumkin nahi tha ke jo log jahan hai wahin unko rehne dete aur naye Bharat aur Pakistan ki bunyaad daalte? Kya zaroori tha musalmanou ko zabardasti Pakistan bhejdiya jaaye aur Hindu’on ko Bharat? Kaise kisi insaan ko apna sab kuch chod chadne par majboor karsakte, kya yeh zaroori tha? Aur toh aur bus apne ghar sansar chod kar hijrat karne par hi majboor nahi kia balke aisa na karne par khoon ki nalliyaan bahate gaye? Bache Buzrug kisi ke liye dil mein shafaqat nahi lehaaz nahi hai bus zulm karte gaye? Bachoun se bachpan cheena toh buzrugou se unke budhape ka sahara. Baardar aurtoun ka lehaaz na tha. Nayi zindagi shuru hone se pehle khatam kardi gayi. Kya inlogoun ke koi dilli rishte nai the? Yeh kaisi aag thi k sab kcuh thes nhes hogaya. Aur aisi nafrat pehlayi k khatam hi nai hoti.
Itni nafrat ke, aaj is baat ko 65 saal hogaye lekin nafrat toh bilkul pehle din jaisi. Itni nafrat ke itne saal k baad bhi pidi dar pidi sau fisad virsay mein mil rahi hai. Khatam hi nai hoti. Yeh kaisi nfrat hai? Yeh kaisi aag hai? Aakhir nafrat ki wajah agar yeh partiton hai toh ismein hum jaise, aam logoun ka kya gunaah? Hum bhi bilkul aap jaise hain, begunah. Phir bhi ek dusre ko saza diye jarahe hain. Nafrat se akhar hasil kya hoga? Aur jaanein jayengi..qudrat aur tareekh ne bh yehi sabakh sikhaya hai ke nafrat toh barbaadi ki rah hai. Phir kyun is aag ko humlog bujha nai paate. Aaj humlog har bure hadsay ka zimmedar, samne wale ko therate hain. Soche samjhe beghair ilzam lagadete hain. Yeh kyun bhool jaate hain ke wo bhi hum jaise bekasoor log hain. Hum toh do aise mumalik hain jo ek hi maa ki goud se janme hain.
Jab bhi koi aman ka paigham laata hai, usey rishwardkhor kehte hain. Koi aman ke liye muqabil mulk jaata hai toh ghaddar ke khitab se nawaazte hain. Koi haarne par udaas nai hota balke samne wale ki khushi mein shareek hokar, ala zarfi ka muzahera kare toh wo toh desh drohi hogaya. Muqabil se dushmani karna toh ala darje ki hubul watni hoti hai unke liye. Nafrat ko hubul watni ki aad mein laate hain par laate zaroor hain. Agar samne wala jeet jaaye toh sattebaazi aur agar hum jeet gaye toh “bhai we deserve it, humare players ne kya kamal kia waghaira waghaira”. Yeh kaisi munafiqat hai? Aur aisa hi kuch haal sarhad ke us paar hai. Cricket, cricket na hua teesri alami jung hogai. “Sportsman-ship” jaisa jazba toh baakhi hi nahi.
Is nafrat se kisko saza dena chahte hain? Wo log jo sarhad paar chuke ya wo jo aisa na karsake?
Dil baith jaata hai unlogun ke baare mein soch kar jo majbooran apna ghar chod gaye. Aur unke liye jo kisi wajah se apnou k saath sarhad paar na karsake. Ismein unki kya khata thi ya humari kya khata hai? Yeh toh muqaddar tha. Isko nafrat ki bunyaad kaise banaya jasakta hai. Shayad unlogoun ki nayi naslein shuru hogai hogi, naya was’i khandaan hoga. Lekin phir bhi unka dil apne purane yaarou ki liye khoon k aansoun rota hoga. Wo buddhi aankhein tarasti thi hogi apne bete ko dekhne k liye. Zindagi ke akhri marhale par unhein apne wo yaar yaad aate honge jo unke saath pehle marhale par the. Tadapte honge unse milne ke liye, unki hansi sunne ke liye, kya unki hansi mein ab bhi wo khanak hogi? Wo apni ladakpan ki mehooba ko yaad karta hoga, kya aaj bhi uski shaukhi waisi hai ya saada sa mizaaj apna lia haii?
Bus ek aas ke Khuda unhein apne pyaarou ka deedar karade. Isi ek aas ke sahare jeete hain. Aur isi aas mein aankehin moond lete hain. Kaun jaane Jannat mein mulakhat hojaye.
Kaash hum itne himmat wale hote ke is aag bujha sakte. Itne ala zarf ke purani ghaltiyou k bhool kar mil sakte. Meri ek choti si khwahish hai, is khwahish ko sunne ke baad shayad mujhe bhi ghaddar qaraar kar denge.Bus itni si khwahish, yeh nafrat ki deewaroun ko girta hua dekhoun. Kya aisa mumkin nahi k humko pakistan ka aur unko bharat ka visa asaani se miljaaye. Kyun humein apne aapko pehle masoom sabith karna padta hai phir kahin jaake visa mile ya na mile. Kya dusre mulkou mein bhi aisa hota hai? Nahi na phir yahan kyun? Hum toh itne nazdeek hain. Wohi zameen, wohi asmaan,wohi samandar,wohi chand, wohi suraj. Humlogun ko samandar bhi juda na kar saka, phir aap aur main kaise keh sakte hain k hum alag hai? Kaunsi si cheez alag hai? Wohi bol, wohi chal,wohi rang,wohi roop, wohi khana,wohi lehja,wohi libaas. Bilkul ek jaise,itne milte julte ke ek dusre mein farkh hum bhi na pehchaan sakenge. Phir yeh naraazgi kis liye? Kab tak nafrat ki beddiyoun mein jakde rahenge? Kab azaad honge nafrat se?
Shayad mein bhi isi aas mein saari umar basar karloun. Shayad meri muraaad pori hojaye aur mein khud ko khush-tareen shaks samjhloon. Aur yeh deewar girane ki koshish mein jut jaaoun. Apne hum watanou k dimaag se unki buri tasveer mita sakoon aur Β bataoun ke wo bhi hum jaise hain. Unke yahan bhi wohi hota hai jo humare yahan. Unke yahan bhi apne desh jaise ghar honge. Aur makeen bhi bilkul hum jaise. Waise hi buzrug, noor ki paikar dadi nani. Waise hi ba-ruab dada nana. Waise hi pur shafaqat maa-baap. Wohi tehwaar wo manate jo hum. Wohi Eid. Wohi rasm-o-riwaj. Wohi tehzeeb. Wohi nukkad ka cricket. Wohi patang pilane ka maza. Wohi chaand raat ki raunkh. Aur bataa sakoon ke yeh nafrat bekaar aur be-bunyaad si hai. Aur shayad meri isi koshish ke dauran mujhe sarhad par apne hum khayal miljaaye. Jinke andar bhi kuch aise hi inqilabi jazbe josh maarte honge. Lekin phir meri hii tarah hukoomat aur media ki wajah se unhein sulaane par majboor hojate honge.

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9 thoughts on “Urdu Musings-Bharat-Pak Cricket match ya teesri Aalmi Jung

  1. I read this and have been sitting here thinking what to write.

    'Nafrat to waqai 65 saal baad bhi wesy hi hae.' Humlogun ko samandar bhi juda na kar saka, phir aap aur main kaise keh sakte hain k hum alag hai?'Kaunsi si cheez alag hai? Wohi bol, wohi chal,wohi rang,wohi roop, wohi khana,wohi lehja,wohi libaas. Bilkul ek jaise,itne milte julte ke ek dusre mein farkh hum bhi na pehchaan sakenge.Apne hum watanou k dimaag se unki buri tasveer mita sakoon aur bataoun ke wo bhi hum jaise hain. Unke yahan bhi wohi hota hai jo humare yahan. Unke yahan bhi apne desh jaise ghar honge. Aur makeen bhi bilkul hum jaise. Waise hi buzrug, noor ki paikar dadi nani. Waise hi ba-ruab dada nana. Waise hi pur shafaqat maa-baap.”

    Sigh. I can feel what you're feeling and somehow I am pleased to see an Indian blog dedicated to this topic. You are a patriot, but on the same time, you are peace-loving and who's not? We all love peace, but we; Indians and Pakistanis feel enmity towards eachother. Khuda Janay ye nafraten kab khatam hongi. Jin mulkon se hm dono ka talluq hae wo apne opposite mulk se nafrat krna kind of zaroori samajhte haen. Sad to say but mene kuch Indians me itni nafrat dekhi hae ke bardasht se bahar. BUT yehi khayal apka Pakistan ke baare me hoga/ ho sakta hae.
    Social media pe, look at those pages. I mean bandey ke pas itna faltoo time hae to parhai hi karle. Im sure uske respective mulk ko bhut faida hoga.
    Aman ki Asha is a nice peace scheme. But not many seem to accept it. Khuda karey nafrat ke wo deewar bilakhir gir hi jaye. Kyunke jo ho chuka wo wapis nhi aega.
    I dont really know koi siyasi mafad tha because I have been told it was necessary. The Muslims couldn't live in the leadership of the then majority of Hindus, after the British left. Kyunke that was like slavery after slavery.
    Maybe it was halaat then. Khoon baha, naslen khatam hui. Nafrat shuru hoi. Jangen larri gyin. Ab 65 saal guzar gye, magr people are like koi naam to le dosre mulk ka!!
    Aman ki asha has started, but I dont see much affects anywhere. They are trying but its going to take long, and its impossible until we learn it in out hearts ke mazhab aman ka pegham deta hae.

    Our histories have mentioned our respective pasts with the ink of hatred. As if Indians and Pakistanis are made to be enemies. most people from both these countries need only a point to quarrel on.

    I always wanted to write a post on 'Aman ki asha' but never got the courage too. This is one brave post that you've written and you have written it very well. You have spoken for all peace-lovers, even for me. But lastly, I have one question. You are a Muslim, I am a Muslim too. So we have this religion in common.But does a Hindu feel the same? I mean, in your friend-circle or neighborhood. Any inspiring examples?

    -Maria

  2. *Sigh* This is going to be a long night πŸ˜›
    Thank you for your long long long reply. *let me get into a mood to reply*
    Yeah firstly, answer to your last question. Yes there are many Non-Muslim Indians who feel the same about Pakistan as I do. I have few friends, who are peace-loving and love Pakistan as much as I do. Most of the youth irrespective of caste, race, class and religion are peace-loving and would love to end the hatred and bewajah ki dushmani anytime, only if they were given a chance.
    There was this page on facebook, I don't know if you have seen it, during World Cup time called We shall win together. On that page you could find, pretty good number of Indians, no they weren't just Muslims but Non-Muslims as well. πŸ™‚
    Yes there are bad people in our place but we have good one as well. As I have said earlier thode kam-akhal aur kam-zarf log hote hain jo apna farz samjhte hain samne wale mulk ko girana. This is not just the case of Indians but Pakistanis as well.
    Its not surprising to know about your bad experiences with Indians, but that should be your reason to generalise, we have goooood oneessss as well (for example your truly πŸ˜‰ )
    We have lived in KSA for all our lives so we've had many face to face encounters with Pakistanis. And I'm sad that I can't say all were good ones. There were bad ones too, but as I have said earlier, every family has a black sheep. πŸ™‚
    The shop that always had an Indian flag didn't have one when India won the semi-final. Co-incident? lol But Whatever, I'm not gonna dwell on it forever. It doesn't make me sad, it makes me laugh, coz thats the shop that always gave us extra discount because we were from across the border.
    And I'm sure Pakistanis living here or any other plave with Indians for that matter will have similar stuff to say. Good and bad ones. πŸ™‚

    Aman Ki Asha i doubt unka ka kuch karne ka khayal bhi hai ya nai. But lets hope for the good πŸ™‚

    I don't know about your History textbooks, but our textbooks never taught us bad about Pakistan. Never. Believe me. We were made to see a non-partial view of the partition. History teacher was a Non-muslim again but I have never heard her say bad about Pakistan and pakistanis and never heard her negative views on partition. I doubt if she had any. πŸ™‚

    Yeah I believe partition might have been necessary but as I have written in my post, itni wahshiyana tarikhe se karne ki zaroorat toh nahi thi. As for slavery I don't know. Coz even now there too many Muslims in India living happily.

    Yeah we become so narrow minded when it comes to padosi mulk, k unki choti si baat bhi itni badi lagti.
    Lastly, I'm sorry that you had bad experiences. But I assure all of us are not bad, social media toh we don't even know k kaun screen k us paar hai πŸ˜›

    Aman ki asha is going to take ages to get something done, sirf advertises banakar kuch nai karsakte, they need to take practical steps.
    Till then me and many other country mates like me are trying to erase the bad image of us and yours. For every bad person who have hurt you we have 3 good ones who will make you smile. πŸ™‚

    Thank you again πŸ™‚
    Cheeers πŸ˜€

  3. I didn't know it was getting that long, wo tou publish krne ke baad dekha πŸ˜€ But I wasnt sure if I was writing theek theek, because it all got mixed up between to say or not to say.
    I loved this part in your reply:”For every bad person who have hurt you we have 3 good ones who will make you smile. :)” I really liked the way you have put the whole note and I appreciate your sincerity and purity.
    About the history, it seems somehow fed in our minds. Perhaps you don't think this way because you are standing here again enmity, but those that I have encountered (Pakis and Indians both) have had it fed. Paros mulk se nafrat is what they have known since ever because wahan bhi bacha bacha slogans gata nazar ata hae when it comes to match, or burning banners or those extremist group activities. Not just theere, I saw a Paki page dedicated to this purpose too. (i found its link from that indian page and i was shocked. yeah right i was shocked to see Pakis doing it) So I talked to them just as I had talked to the Indian. But unfortunately, none deleted their page. And ha, did I really expect them so? Well, sadly I did expect them to stop that flow. I told in the way i could, had different experiences with both the groups, but you see jab banda burai karta hae to wo kisi ki nahi sunta. So people advised me to let them do what they want and stop minding. for its only getting on my nerves, and they DONT care.

    Its kind of you to apologize and I really really feel sorry about those that annoyed you and created bad image yahan ki. You are right, every house has that bad chick (or was it black sheep?) πŸ™‚

    Aman ki asha pe i totally agree. advertise krne se KUCH NHI hony wala. They have to be PRACTICAL.

    That shop scene was an interesting read. We people by the way, are from Kanpoor, some far relatives are still living there and one family is here nowadays for a wedding πŸ™‚

    Anyhow the only conclusion is keeping it right in our hearts. Look at the brighter sides and to never stop trying πŸ™‚
    Best regards,
    Maria.

  4. Yes, I remember reading this and more for your response to Maria’s comment, which was so balanced and reasoned. Bilkul sahi farmaya. I did not understand the precise meaning of every Urdu word, but the essence and the gist of it comes through. That ad was totes lovely. There is also this site where I have read many personal narratives of 1947 from both sides of the border including Bangladesh http://www.1947partitionarchive.org/

    You should totally write scripts and dialogues for Urdu serials. I kept imagining that I was hearing all of this in some serial on Zindagi πŸ™‚

    • Hahaha GM! Thats very kind of you…I still have a long way to go in my pursuit of Urdu. But thank you so much. Your comment made my day err night πŸ˜‰
      Wow! I always wanted to read these stories, tried searching but couldn’t find. I shall dig into them soon enough. =)

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